Thursday 19 May 2011

Sexual Pleasure Tips

Here are some sexual pleasure tips that you can use to increase both yours and your lovers enjoyment.

Have sex in a location other than the bedroom. This prevents things for becoming repetitive and boring, and if you start spontaneously this makes the sex more exciting. The only problem with this is the sex is generally less comfortable, so depending on the location these usually turn out to be quickies.

Tease your partner. This can be done in many ways but the most common one is to bring him/her to the point just before orgasm and then stop stimulating them. Then wait about 30 seconds and start up again. Rinse and repeat a few times and then allow them to climax. This will give them a more intense orgasm.

Here's a tip for men. Take zinc as a supplement as it increase testosterone levels which heightens your sex drive and can increase the pleasure you get from sex and the intensity of your orgasm. Foods rich in zinc include oysters and meats, particularly red meats.

Give a sexual gift such as oral sex to your lover or partner at a surprise time, such as just when they get back from work or out of the shower. In other words a time when they are not busy and it is unusual to have sex.

Focus on your own mental state. Learn to relax both mind and body and you'll increase your enjoyment. Meditation is a good way to get good at this if you find clearing your mind of mental chatter difficult. By being in the moment and having your attention only on the sensations and stimulation you will heighten these senses!

Be aware of the different senses during sex, not just touch. Notice how your lover smells and tastes. Enjoy the sight of your lover. Look into their eyes for a deeper connection (this one is very powerful).

Guys, don't be a selfish lover. Give your girl an orgasm first and then focus on yourself. When the man climaxes it tends to stop things for a while, whereas when a girl orgasms she often becomes more horny and can orgasm again soon after.

Rough sex is a big turn on for many women, so guys, don't limit your sessions to sensual lovemaking. Unleash the animal within with rough hard sex. Learn to tap into your primal and dominant sexual side as a man.

To make lovemaking more sensual whip out the oils and give your lover a total body massage. Put a clean large towel on the bed to avoid getting your bedsheets oily. Heighten the mood by putting on sexy music such as r'n'b and lighting scented candles. Make the massage last a good 15 minutes before working your way to directly stimulating their genitals.

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